Average Asexual

av·er·age

/ˈav(ə)rij/

Of the usual or ordinary standard, level, or quantity.

a·sex·u·al

/āˈsekSH(o͞o)əl/

A person who has no sexual feelings or desires, or who is not sexually attracted to anyone.

av·er·age a·sex·u·al

Me.

Asexual Dating

An Asexual Intimacy Menu (because aces deserve one too!)

If you’re the kind of person who is fascinated with relationships and sexuality, it’s likely you see relationship-related content on Instagram reels. This might be couples talking about their sex life, sex educators discussing sexual education, or posts from Planned Parenthood just to name a few. This all comes up on my feed, and one…

Kink

I, an Asexual, Went to the Kink Club, and it was Awesome

I went to the kink club! And it was really awesome. As I mentioned in a previous blog post, I’ve been educating myself on the kink community. I just finished writing my undergrad thesis: a poetry collection on the taboo, so I obviously had to do my kink research to include this subject matter in…

Asexual Dating

What I’ve Learned From Dating my Trans Partner

My partner and I recently had our one year anniversary. Please, hold your applause for America’s Favorite Couple. And even though we’ve been together for some time, there’s a lack of blog posts relating to this very queer part of my life. You’d think the blog content would be skyrocketing to new unimaginable levels. Over…

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About Me

Jadey Holcomb is a poet, storyteller, and author of Average Asexual. She was born under a waning crescent moon alongside her fraternal twin sister. She resents science’s obsession with identical twins. She is identifiable from her red hair, eyeliner, and endless comments about Conan Gray whom she steals fashion inspiration, jokes, and loosely defined morals from. Jadey’s blog focuses on her queer identity, though when asked about identifying as a queer asexual she has said “I wouldn’t know anything about that.” When not writing she can be found searching the night sky for Orion’s Belt.

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